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Stephanie - 2013-04-21 13:09:55
A man who can kiss a cat. I SO get that. And I'm militant about getting my share of the arm rest in a movie theater, too. :)
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Alex - 2013-04-21 13:16:12
yeah, yeah, fine, but what happened about splitting up with mr muscle?? You big fat tease!!
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Amy - 2013-04-21 14:34:08
The observation about women's awareness of space is based in fear is so true and perceptive! Just the other day, Adam and I were talking about the ways that men have it worse these days. I think it all boils down to two things; women are allowed to show weakness and women are allowed to behave like men. These days women can kiss cats, wear pants, wear make-up and body build and the people who complain only look silly and archaic. Yes, there was a time when it was normal to beat a woman for acting like a man, but those days are over. Today, men still have to fear beatings for acting like women. Adam's sister is transgender, and I asked her about the differences in how she's treated in public as a woman vs a man. She said, "It's a hell of a lot easier to be a woman." I asked her why. She said that because when you're a woman, you're not constantly challenged by men. Everything isn't a contest about who has the biggest balls. Also, when you go someplace unfamiliar as a woman, people are willing to help you. Someone will explain things to you. If you're a man and confused, people expect you to figure things out for yourself. That's an interesting observation that I never thought about, but on the flip side, I'm more hesitant to help a "confused looking man" because of the underlying fear of violence that you mentioned.
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Amy - 2013-04-21 14:41:08
Remember, the mean comments say more about the commenter than they say about you. It's just a way of garnering negative attention, like a cat pooping on a pillow. Just know that other people are totally supporting you and love you.
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Terri T - 2013-04-21 22:03:47
Interesting thoughts. I never thought I was giving up my space because I was afraid but more that I was more polite and gracious. But I guess that could still go back to being more willing to be the "weaker" sex and not wanting to cause conflict or attract attention.
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Poolie - 2013-04-23 00:06:49
I am so clueless about this stuff most of the time. I am thoughtful and courteous most of the time to people of both genders (just like Terri). I always thank people who hold doors for me, etc. And, for as much as I have flown, I have never ever noticed who gets the armrest. But now that you mention it.........I always have at least one. Or at least I think I do! LOL! Thanks for stopping by my journal. I have missed your visits, lady!
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poundheadhere - 2013-04-24 07:40:16
You hit a lot of nails directly on the head, and not just fingernails. The battle of the sexes is messier today, the playing field muddier; but as a result, we're literally on more even ground. Here's hoping for more people who are able to parent their kids as effectively as you've clearly done with yours.
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