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Amy - 2012-10-07 19:41:54
I'm the exact same way. I hate getting suggestions for fixing problems. I even hate being told when I am doing something "right." And, obviously, if someone tells me that I'm doing something "wrong" then I'm likely to decapitate them. Despite that, I have this OCD like behavior that compels me to "fix" people. For one thing, I can't figure out why I hate being fixed and/or encouraged so much, and another, I can't figure out why I can't stop myself from doing it myself, ARGH.
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Bozoette Mary - 2012-10-07 20:05:53
I love this post. And you, too.
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Anna - 2012-10-07 20:06:23
Ah, I'm glad you've arrived at not thinking about what you look like. I've been there for a while (I'm a bit older) and I don't know how I got here, or how to help anyone else get there (Yeah, I'm a compulsive helper too), but I have to say, I like it. xxx
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Stephanie - 2012-10-07 20:31:42
I've always felt the need to be in control, in order to avoid the chaos that my frequently degenerated into. I never thought about it before I read this entry, but that's another reason I feel so relaxed and comfortable and safe with you. Neither one of has to control anything during our time together. *Huge sigh of relief* P.S. I still think Bono is dead sexy!
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Terri T - 2012-10-07 21:58:42
I might have said this before but I like not sweating the small stuff (at least not quite as much as I used to do) Still fret over the aging process but can't/don't do too much about it. Glad you are feeling so much more content these days.
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Amy - 2012-10-09 18:03:11
I'm sorry, I should have explained further. My days have been non-stop, lately.
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