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Tell me all about it, dear...
Anna - 2011-10-19 19:40:18
I love you, LA. You know all the things I'd say - they add up to the fact that I think you're a fantastic, inspirational, awesome person and you enrich my life. I wish I had a magic wand to make all the crap go away, but meantime carry on moaning - you got cause. xxxxxxxxxxxx
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beanie - 2011-10-19 21:12:00
What Anna said goes for me too!
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terri t - 2011-10-19 21:53:09
Do you suppose Mick is being so bullish because he knows what his mother did to your spirit? Maybe you & Mick need a serious sit-down to get past this. You have the right to your own feelings. You certainly have the right to feel hurt and you should be able to complain or rant about things that get you down.
Also going through menopause when you realize your baby is growing up is a double slash of the aging sword.
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Katherine - 2011-10-19 23:43:35
Right there with you, sweet friend, on the losing of the baby from the nest (who is this 10th grade man wit the deep voice and big biceps???) and on the menopause brain. Sweet cheeses, let this be a passing phase. And I, too, second Anna's emotion. Love love love you. K
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gbw - 2011-10-20 01:52:42
{{holding you}}
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michele - 2011-10-20 02:37:55
hon, we might *have* to leave a comment, but we want to. this is as good a place as any to puke the mental crap onto. i've found for me its like an infected cut - once the pus is out, it can heal cleanly. {{hugs}} and yes, all men are like that. :/
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michele - 2011-10-20 02:39:08
crap. that was supposed to be "might not have to"
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artgnome - 2011-10-20 11:40:44
The trip to meet you and your family alone was so worth what's happening. You are a sweet and creative fun person. I wish we lived closer! I am praying and believing for a miracle with the car. It will all work out. Everyone is amazed at how pretty Jet is. :) Big hug for you!
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momonroof - 2011-10-20 12:03:52
a thousand dittos... love and hugs to you, L.a., never question your value as a friend or a mother... my life is so much richer with you in it, and I know many others who would say the same.
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Stephanie - 2011-10-20 12:19:47
I second what Anna said. I love you.
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cccerberus - 2011-10-20 13:01:51
i'm going through a thick patch of hormonal brain fog these days too. seems like nobody is kind about my crazy memory lapses except women who are going or have went through it. i worry that the fog only gets thicker and dementia is around the corner. anyway, i think men often come with their own level of frustration, and we all know what our partners blowing points are, for the most part. should not be expected to occur every fcking time- the dude needs to take a deep breath and at least keep his mouth shut every now and then. sorry you didn't have a cell phone when you needed one most.
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dichroic - 2011-10-21 11:26:55
I am *really* not fond of pre-meopausal brainfog either. I need this brain; it's the only one I got. I think venting up spleen is a benign thing, something we all need to do now and then (also, I am so sorry Mick can't be a proper helpmeet, sorry for the stuff you're going through with your MIL and house and all). But not only is it needed, you did a good deed too. Because as we go through scary aging physical changes, it helps so much to be walking down that path in good company. Ted and I are always astonished at how this growing old together thing actually does work out, but he's not much comfort on the women-only symptoms.
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