Tell me all about it, dear...

Amy - 2011-09-09 15:56:34
*HUGS* I'm sorry sorry.
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Anna - 2011-09-09 16:12:11
I knew something big had got you. Hugs and love, baby, hugs and love. xxxxx
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Michelle - 2011-09-09 16:52:25
Yes, they do. Fuck, I'm sorry. And so mad on your behalf I want to punch something.
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Terri T - 2011-09-09 17:21:40
I'm really sorry too. I know when it is someone that you opened your heart to and then they disregard your feelings - it hurts so bad. I expect MIL was sexually abused by this man for years and just thought it meant he loved her....if you read my book, you will get the connection. I expect she will have no idea why you have pulled away from her. You have the right to be upset and you don't have to pretend it didn't happen...it did and you and Mick know it. I think if you ever are in the same room with this jerk, you and Mick need to have a "conversation" with him that lets him know that his behavior wasn't appropriate and he knew it.
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Katherine - 2011-09-09 17:37:15
I'm sorry. So sorry. Families do suck which is why I have among the biggest, baddest cases of orphan envy around. XXXOOO Love you!
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Bozoette Mary - 2011-09-09 18:56:56
I'm so sorry, honey. Hugging you.
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catsoul - 2011-09-09 19:23:26
I hear what you are saying loud and clear. I am so sorry it hurts you so. Families can hurt so much. =^..^=
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Stephanie - 2011-09-09 21:49:26
I am speechless. The only think I can think of to say is I'm so sorry MIL hurt you like this. She should be ashamed of herself. Love you!
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beanie - 2011-09-09 23:35:22
Maybe MIL needs to hear how you feel from you... obviously she doesn't understand how you feel.
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Jim - 2011-09-10 11:55:38
Oh, that really sucks.
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Holly - 2011-09-10 12:42:02
I am so sorry. I will never understand how one woman cannot have another woman's back when it comes to perverts. If he did it to you, it is guaranteed he has pulled it on others. Ny hugs to you. At least your man is in your corner.
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alison - 2011-09-10 13:23:53
It's always hard to keep it in your head that your in-laws are not your family. When push comes to shove you are an outsider. I had my heart broken twice during my divorce. First there was the betrayal of my husband but then my MIL, who always told me I was like a daughter to her, cut me off without the slightest regard. My current in-laws are very nice but I don't call them Mom and Dad because they are not and never will be. Blood always wins out and you set yourself up for pain when you forget that. I have always felt bad for your childhood, my Mom is BP but beneath all the chaos she truly loves me. At least you have a man who loves you, and while they are not family, you do have many friends and readers who care for you and wish you happiness, I among them (a reader, I wouldn't presume friendship). My advice (after the long winded comment), leave sleeping dogs lie, don't go out of your way and enjoy YOUR family for the treasure it is,
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Pam L - 2011-09-10 18:40:49
It truly sucks that this is how your MIL really is, who knew? I hope some day she get's it, but I wouldn't waste any time waiting for that either. Why would she want to keep a cousin like that around instead of you boggles the mind, a cousin? not even a brother? but in the end, she is the one who will lose, you, and maybe Mick too? why would she jeopardize that?
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momonroof - 2011-09-11 08:00:13
I don't get it either... what Holly said, women have to stick together. Is your MIL somehow threatened by you? Not to analyze, not my job, but it really seemed like she had it more "together" than that... but maybe not... whatever, it's her problem, you are an enlightened being, take nothing personally... and keep fighting the fight and calling a PERV a PERV!! Good on you and good on Mick for taking a stand!
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