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Tell me all about it, dear...
dichroic - 2008-03-04 12:42:47
Can't help about the rest, much as I wish I could, but I suspect the looks issue is all about the health. Hopefully this flare will die down a bit or at least the flu exacerbating it will go away soon. Everyone looks a bit gray (as in long-past-dead) when she's dehydrated, undernourished, and feeling like shit.
As for Alex, that's just ridiculous. He's had enough of his own issues with Mike to know what he (Mike) is and what he (Alex) is trying to condemn you to. I know having your parents break up is rough, but the trauma that's normal at twelve is a bit inappropriate when acted out at 22. Not that knowing all that helps change anything, again unfortunately.
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Diane - 2008-03-04 12:56:30
Wow ((((HUGS)))) I haven't been *there* in a long time. Better times are coming. It's just the wait that gets ya. Take care of yourself. This kind of grind wears you down.
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Bozoette Mary - 2008-03-04 13:39:37
I hope the shit dries up soon -- in every regard, dear heart.
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terri - 2008-03-04 14:48:29
Your oldest son needs to get a grip and face the reality that you are entitled to a good life and you are the one who chooses what that life will be. I am sure he will figure it out some day...especially if the Ex keeps pooping on his parade.
As for you and Mick...that, too, will work out as much as it can. I live with a guy like Mick who apparently was blessd with the "natural ability" to always be right. His irritation with those who do not follow his lead can be mind-numbing...especially when he wants me to concur with his every viewpoint. I often say, "I understand why you feel that way but I don't agree with you completely." Most times, that lets me off the hook! Anyhow, dealing with Wolf's own needs plus going through his puberty and your periomenopause can be a real course in self-survival. Hope you can find a source for all this purging...you should get paid for the way you write it down....kind of a 2008 Erma Bombeck.....!!!
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hil - 2008-03-04 15:04:48
LA, you've been kicking ass for way to long. 18 MONTHS without a flareup? Wow! You manage a ton of shit with penache on "the regular", and I'm always impressed. I send hugs, and I hope that the suckitude of the moment is shortlived. Take time for you. I guess you know. xoxo, hil
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Poolie - 2008-03-04 15:05:20
I cannot imagine your looks drying up at all. You are stunning, LA. Absolutely stunning! You have magic dazzle hair, remember? So fun! I hope you feel better soon.
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Amy - 2008-03-04 15:19:26
Wow, so much to deal with. I agree, something great will break soon, and all will be well. Take good care of yourself.
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Charis - 2008-03-04 15:30:31
Oy, that doesn't sound too hot. I hope you're getting better soon and am sending you lots of hugs and strengths. You're a strong one and I like you so, so much. You'll get through it and you will survive. All the best to you, love, Charis :-))
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Katherine - 2008-03-04 15:53:03
I'm with Dichroic on the looks, it's the illness and the good look will be back along with the good feel before long. Sorry about Alex, probably just part of the growing up deal and sharing the role of good guy in your life may pinch a little at first, but he'll get over it. Hoping you feel better soon--spring's coming, hang on!
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Rosie - 2008-03-04 16:13:26
Thankfully, even though I've been experiencing similar things, including a rapid weight loss that has turned me into the elephant skin woman, I haven't had it quite as bad as you. And I never, ever could keep things even keel and on a schedule. I tried for many years, but I'm just way too flighty for that, and I admire the hell outta you because you CAN manage it! But it will all get better as you start feeling better I'm sure of that. There is nothing like the feeling that a flame-thrower crawled up your butthole to make the day really, really screwed! But as they say, and I pray fervently daily, "This too shall pass" and our skin and hair and buttholes will return to normal, and we will be the beautiful goddesses that we truely are!
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Stephanie - 2008-03-04 17:37:28
I'm so sorry about the flareup and the hand to mouth lifestyle. Boy, can I relate. In reference to Alex, all I can say is shame on him. As for your looks, you're beautiful. So there.
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Melissa - 2008-03-04 20:12:11
Bleh. I'm so sorry. I am still hoping and hoping things start upward for you.
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Joan - 2008-03-04 20:45:23
Oh! I hope you'll be feeling better...and SOON!
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