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inarticulate - 2004-06-13 16:19:26
Hey babe. I read this book. I can't quite recommend it because it REALLY pissed me off and probably would piss you off, too, and I kinda don't want to get blamed if it does. But I don't know. After I read (skimmed) it, something in there stuck and afterward things got better in our house. Plus therapy. Anyway, book is prob. available at library. It's called Loving What Is by Katie Byron. Maybe?
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inarticulate - 2004-06-13 16:23:27
There is a web site, too: http://www.thework.org/
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Pandionna - 2004-06-13 22:45:24
Have you tried not making it so easy for him? I realize men need to be hit on the head with a brick, but maybe he needs to HAVE to put in effort to please YOU, instead of the other way around. All this bending over backwards on your part to be clear with him takes all the proactivity out of things on his part. Granted, I'm a fine one to talk about such things, but your bending over is your proactivity. Where's his? Oh, don't mind me. I'm talking out my arse again. Just seems like you're doing all the work and he's not doing any, and maybe he won't unless he has to.
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Trinity Sixty-Three - 2004-06-13 23:51:34
Oh I don't mean in the game sense. I mean in the "I'm serious I have had enough of your shit sense, and I need a mother fucking break, and when you can be a grown up call me sense." xoxoxo
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